Module 3 Reflection Insufficient Supportive Connection: While I often feel very connected when I’m with others (healthy bridge), I sometimes also feel withdrawn and inward in relation to others such that I don’t reach out when I could, either for their sake or my own. I also recognize how with my mother in particular, I’m both supportive and withdrawn at the same time. Looking at the qualities, I recognize all of these: fear of enmeshment, resisting others’ neediness, and resentful.