Over-Attentive

I go along with the wants & needs of the group at the expense of my own.

In groups, I have an idealized attitude that “We’re all fine!” even when we’re not.

I get easily distracted and drawn into whatever’s happening around me.

I do more “emotional labor” than the other, to help our connection feel good.

I focus on the concerns, interests, and/or feelings of others at the expense of my own.

My own emotional wellbeing is overly affected by the mood & feelings of others.